Much like me, my path in life has been anything but straight.
The First Eighteen Years...I was born in Fort Worth and was the kind of sensitive kid who definitely grows up to be an actor. From a young age I knew I wanted to be in film and television, but when the time came for monologues in freshman theater I had a meltdown. I gave up on acting and hid out in the band instead.
Thanks to the support of an amazing band director and a nickname that made people immediately like me (buy my memoir in ten years to find out the nickname), I had a place where I could put myself out there and learn that I deserved to take up space in the world. By my senior year I was head drum major of the marching band, ranked second of all the high school oboe players in Texas, sang in the top three choirs, and had developed a taste for what one might call "hamming it up." |
Hair by me, dimples by mom.
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LSU Senior Recital, November 2005
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Young Adulthood...I studied Music Performance and Education at LSU in Baton Rouge and had the incredible opportunity to perform with several professional orchestras in the Gulf Coast area. I went on to earn a Masters in Oboe from the Cincinnati Conservatory, but by the end of that program I knew that oboe was not my calling. I made the logical choice and quit music to pursue comedy.
A love for Tina Fey and a perfect weekend in Chicago made it an easy choice - I spent almost eight years in the Windy City figuring out improv, writing, acting, and most importantly, who the hell I was (the whole "coming out" process takes a while when you grow up in rural Texas in the 90s). By 30 I had a solid creative foundation and wrote and performed a solo autobiographical show called Rebecca Marquardt: The First 30 Years. I was ready for my dream city - NYC. |
The Five Year Re-Route...Spoiler - NYC didn't work out! Shortly after I arrived my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer, then my sister Rachel was diagnosed with what turned out to be kidney cancer. My mom is alive and well (I live with her sometimes in a totally cool, grown-up way), but my sister died in 2018. It's stupidly unfair that she died so young, but I'm grateful for the time I had bonding with her and the rest of my family as an adult.
I spent a year and a half trying to figure out how to be a person again without constantly talking about My Dead Sister (I have always been awesome at parties), but eventually my drive to create was stronger than my need to sit around and process. I dove into making a web series, a live stream variety talk show, recorded some music covers, and was finally back to peak productivity in January 2020. Everything has been sunshine and roses since! (ha - kidding...) |
My sister and I at a wedding that definitely served alcohol.
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Post softball game with The Bat Midlers.
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Less Young Adulthood (now)...When the pandemic hit I joined the hordes of people pouring out of the coasts and into Texas and spent about a year and a half in and around Austin.
In 2021 I co-wrote/directed/produced my first award-winning film and also wrote the short screenplay, Pinsetter, which has done well in competitions. I started taking acting classes on Zoom with teachers in LA and in the summer of 2022 bit the bullet and drove me, my cat, and a car full of stuff cross-country to CA. I spend most of my time in CA but maintain a home base in TX and will basically go anywhere I can find exciting work. When I'm not prepping for class or hustling to get auditions I work as a stage manager with The Second City where we use improv exercises to make corporate workplaces better. It's really fulfilling work that allows me to either travel or work from my computer in PJs. |
So who am I?
I'm a hilarious, sparkly, girl-next-door who has learned to take up space and appreciate the journey. I know what it's like to feel unseen and I hope to keep others from feeling that. I see through rose-colored lenses without ignoring the hard things and I aim to tell stories that help people laugh and cry their way through life.
I love to collaborate and spend a lot of time thinking about what it means to lead, both as a designated leader and as a teammate. I also think we need WAY more romcoms where two women fall in love and neither of them hates themselves for being gay because it's 2023 but don't worry, I'm writing one right now.
I love to collaborate and spend a lot of time thinking about what it means to lead, both as a designated leader and as a teammate. I also think we need WAY more romcoms where two women fall in love and neither of them hates themselves for being gay because it's 2023 but don't worry, I'm writing one right now.
My perfect three-legged cat, Myrtle. No, she will probably not let you pet her.